I Think We’re Planning Our Lives Wrong
Maybe the problem isn’t that you’re bad at planning. Maybe your planner is asking too much of you. There is something I’ve noticed about the way we’re taught to plan our lives. Everything has to be organized. Your goals have to be clear. Your habits have to be consistent. Your mornings have to be productive. Your week has to be planned before it even begins. And somehow, if you miss a few days, the whole thing starts feeling like another task you’re failing at. I don’t think planning is supposed to feel like that. I think a planner should make life feel lighter , not make you feel guilty for being human. Maybe you don’t need another perfect routine I used to think getting my life together meant knowing exactly what I was doing. What I wanted. Where I was going. What I needed to accomplish this month. What habits I needed to build. What I should stop doing. Basically, I thought I needed a beautifully organized answer to every part of my life. But real life doesn’t work like that. Som...